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Does your marriage need a Weekend to Remember?
How's your US?
You and your spouse are unique. There has never been another US just like the two of you. You may be thinking ... ahh we are like a marital snowflake, how romantic. Or maybe you're thinking ... thank God there is not another couple like US because we are a hot mess!
No matter where you currently find your US, you can experience more moments of awesome and less moments of awful. And it's easier than you think. Your US can become more. Not some cookie cutter, clone version of someone else's marriage, but the best version of your US.
Through humor, transparency, biblical wisdom, research, and a massive amount of practicality, this year's conference will be guiding you through four, doable, easy to understand habits that will help you become your best us!
We will build on the same four Core Habits that we established when we "Got Our WITH Back" and during our US date nights last year. Those are Love God First, Respect and Love, Practice Your Promise and Have Serious Fun!
Join us this for our marriage conference as you learn to Become Your Best US!!
Cost is $30 per couple. $15 per couple for Pastors and First Responders. Childcare, supplies and lunch are included. Register and pay online (using link below) or @ the iDesk by Sunday, 2/4.
PLEASE ONLY REGISTER ONCE PER COUPLE.
Click HERE to Register.
FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 9TH 6:00 pm – 8:45 pm
6:00 Childcare Check-in begins in Children’s Center
6:00 – 6:45 Registration, Music, Photo Booth, Desserts and Coffee!
6:45 – 7:15 Welcome and Marriage as Discipleship
7:15 – 7:45 Worship
7:45 – 8:45 Session One: Time For Your Best US / Have Serious Fun
Taking time for your US—it’s one of those things you know you should do, you may even want to do, but there are just so many other important things that demand your time. But your marriage needs your attention too. Your US needs time for you to unplug. When you do, it gives your marriage something no one or nothing can take away.
8:45 Saturday Instructions & Dismiss
SATURDAY, February 10TH 8:15 am – 3:30 pm
8:15 Childcare Check-in begins in Children’s Center
8:15 – 9:00 Doors Open with Music, Breakfast and Coffee!
9:00 – 9:30 Worship
9:30 – 10:45 Session Two: Believe in Your Best US / Love God First
In every relationship, there’s a gap at some point between your expectations and your spouse’s behavior. He always . . . she always . . . any time we need to go somewhere, he/she . . . And in the gap, we insert beliefs, judgments, absolutes. We assume the worst, or we can believe the best. The great news is that you can choose to believe the best about your US.
10:45 - 11:00 Break
11:00 - 12:30 Breakouts: Pre-Marital & Newlywed / Empty Nest / Young Families / First Responders / Step-Family / Love & Respect
12:30 - 1:00 Lunch/Couple Project
1:00 - 2:15 Session Three: Fight For Your Best US / Respect & Love
In every marriage, conflict happens. Why? Because you are two different people with two different expectations, histories, personalities. So how to do you handle conflict? But you really can learn how to respond in a way that fights for your US, and doesn’t just . . . fight.
2:15 - 3:15 Session Four: Grow Your Best US / Practice Your Promise
In many marriages, our US needs to grow. Maybe one of us is mature, the other isn’t. Both of us are immature. Both of us are growing. Instead of being stuck in what Ted Cunningham calls a “prolonged adolescence,” we can grow to become the spouse our husband or wife needs us to be.
3:15 – 3:25 Rose Ceremony
3:25 – 3:30 Wrap up and Turn in evaluation forms 3:30 Dismiss
5:00 - 8:30 pm on the Second Saturday of each month (except none in December)
Hi Great Daters!
Please sign up by email at email@example.com, facebook page or RSVP at the Contact tab of allinmarriage.com by Wednesday of the date week. When registering, please let us know how many children will be coming and their names and ages.
The children will be served chicken tenders and fruit for dinner at 5:15 so please have them dropped off by then.
We look forward to conducting this Great Date Experience with you and seeing your marriages deepen as you are intentional about making the time to learn more about each other, dream together and HAVE FUN together!
Did you miss a date night? If so, click on the Enrichment tab to download and print!